Of all a woman’s clothing, panties are not only the last line of defense; they also become the end of a man’s sexual fantasies. Through panties, men move from fantasy to reality, and panties are often more sexy than bras. Although the essential function of panties is to cover the sex organs, protection, hygiene, and a sense of security, they fulfill the psychological needs of narcissism and seduction at the same time.
The design of panties—lace, sculpted, cut-out, sheer, translucent, etc.—is intended to create a visual seduction that fascinates women for their bodies and triggers men’s sexual fantasies as well. In fact, a completely naked female body is far less attractive than a woman in sexy panties. For men, panties bring about the emotion of “wanting to meet, but also rejecting”, so that they can experience intense stimulation and pleasure in the process of peeping.
This “voyeuristic” psychological effect also explains why some men have fetishes (e.g., stealing or buying panties)—their fantasies about panties far outweigh their desire to expose their bodies.
As a result, panties are not just worn by women for health care; they have become the most intimate and personal gift a man can give a woman. When men pick panties as a gift, they often do so to fulfill their sexual fantasies. When women wear these gifts, they frequently fantasize about men’s desires and are satisfied both physically and psychologically.
The Narcissistic Function of Panties and Women’s Choices
Chizuko Ueno mentions in her book “Theater Under the Skirt” that women’s panties are not only designed to satisfy men’s sexual desires, but they also have a narcissistic function to satisfy them. Men often fail to understand women’s obsession with their bodies, and it is this obsession that makes panties so diverse and a consumer product on the market.
The choice and wearing of panties is a kind of self-identification and affirmation of a woman’s own body. When choosing panties, women often consider not only their appearance and functionality but also how they enhance their body image.
How to Choose the Right Panties for You
When choosing the right panties for you, it is essential to understand your body features, especially the shape of your buttocks. Below are a few common types of panties and their suitability and matching suggestions:
1. High-waisted Boxer Shorts
- Suitable for: Women with no excess fat in the waist and abdomen, no flab in the buttocks, and girls who like sports.
- Suitable for matching: Ideal for wearing aerobics clothing to avoid crotch and buttocks showing the bottom.
- Unsuitable for: People with excess fat in the abdomen or sagging buttocks.
2. Mid-rise Boxer Shorts
- Suitable for: Ideal for women of all body types.
- Suitable with: Suitable with most pants and skirts, but avoid pants with low waist design.
- Unsuitable for: People who need special support for their lower body curves as it does not have any special buttock lifting or tummy tucking effect.
3. High-waisted Pants Quadrangular Pants
- Suitable for: Women who want to tighten the abdomen and lift the buttocks through underwear.
- Suitable for: Best when paired with pants, but be aware of possible exposure when sitting down in skirts.
- Unsuitable for: This design is suitable for most people, but care is needed when matching it with short skirts.
4. White Cotton Briefs (Basic)
- Suitable for: Suitable for all types of people, especially young girls.
- Suitable for: Everyday wear, especially for those who seek comfort.
5. Non-marking Panties
- Suitable for: Girls with fuller hips, especially when wearing suit pants or other tight pants.
- Advantages: Traceless design, will not strangle the buttock marks.
6. Y-shaped Pants
- Suitable for: Girls who like low-rise pants.
- Advantages: Comfortable, non-marking, avoiding the embarrassment of panty exposure.
Introduction of Various Panty Styles
1. Mesh Panties
- Suitable for: Girls who are afraid of stuffy heat in summer.
- Advantages: Mesh yarn is breathable and won’t make your body feel stuffy, and cotton is still used in the key parts of the panties to avoid allergies.
2. Side Tie Panties
- Suitable for: Girls with wide pelvic bones.
- Advantages: Very sexy, but may have embarrassing situations when wearing pants with exposed straps.
3. Thong
- Suitable for: Girls who love invisible panties and are not afraid of discomfort.
- Advantages: Very sexy, stylish, and will not leave traces on your buttocks.
- Note: Choose a thin band design that will be more comfortable; avoid wearing thongs with a wide band design.
4. Safety Pants (Boxer Briefs)
- Suitable for: Ideal for girls with short skirts.
- Advantages: Avoid getting exposed, and comfortable to wear. Ensure you choose the right size to prevent discomfort.
The Choice of Set Underwear
Nowadays, many girls like to wear set underwear pants, but the importance of underwear is often overlooked when shopping. In addition to matching styles, fabrics, and sizes are also important considerations. Especially erotic panties, although attractive, may have the risk of falling off and are best avoided when they are not comfortable to wear.
Overall, the choice of panties should focus on comfort and practicality without the need to go overboard with complicated and flashy designs.
Conclusion
Panties are not only a woman’s intimate clothing but also a tool to express confidence, attraction, and narcissism. Whether on the psychological or physical level, panties carry a deep symbolic meaning. Choosing the right panties for you will not only enhance your wearing experience but also boost your confidence and attractiveness!